Why You Should Sell Everything You Own

Possessions have a funny way of accumulating over time. I encourage you to try this right now. Stand up, take a look around your room. Open up the drawers and rifle through. Peek under the bed, and on the highest shelves. Now ask yourself- how much of that stuff do I use regularly?

I’ll let you in on a secret- I’m a bit of a hoarder. This is a label that I would never have associated with myself before this week, but the second hand glove fits. Looking through my cupboards this week I realised that I was storing winter coats from 7 years ago, that no longer fit and I never wore, countless ill fitting hand-me-downs from my 3 sisters, old walking boots so caked in mud they probably count as an ecosystem and reams of filled up notebooks with jottings such as “Remember to go to the gym!” filling the crumpled pages.

The epiphany that changed the way I looked at these possessions was simply saying “Is this essential? If I didn’t have this would I even notice?” I shifted around 20 kilos of clothes and sold £70 worth of ‘old tat’ on Ebay (don’t worry, I worded it more enticingly in the listing). I realised, as I threw ancient T Shirts and broken pens in the bin, that after a while, possessions take more energy than they give. I often the phrase, ‘cluttered room, cluttered mind’, and having completed my Possession Purge, I can testify that it is true. There’s something about simplicity, minimalism, and space, that is calming, and having a house full of nick nacks that you don’t use conflicts with that.

Religions have always had something to say about possessions. For Jesus it was “Sell your possessions and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven.” In Buddhism, Vireka and Viraaga are concepts meaning ‘detachment’- it is well established that a Monk cannot reach true Enlightenment if distracted by Possessions. Looking over several religions, it becomes clear that a whole lot of people thought getting too bogged down by possessions is a bad idea. This lead me to my next question-

Is This A Capitalist Phenomenon?

Consumerism is the heady oil in the Capitalist machine. The average American household is in $7,000 of credit card debt. Chuck Palanhuick wrote in ‘Lullaby’, a satirical novel- “Are these things really better than the things I already have? Or am I just trained to be dissatisfied with what I have now?” Since the Henry Ford assembly lines upped production efficiency to supply and demand skewing levels, advertisers have been working hard to increase demand any way possible. The ‘I Need It’ mentality that we have towards the new iPhone, or a new dress for this weekend, a bigger car, it’s all benefiting companies- but not necessarily you. Sitting Bull, a Native American Chief, said of the American settlers-”They have a mind to till the soil, and the love of possessions is a disease in them.”

If you view all your incoming money as un-invested capital, and your outgoings as your investments, what would you be investing in? World travel, education, savings or a business idea? Or, realistically, coffees at Starbucks, mobile phone bills, new laptops, and a stream of new clothes and accessories? That is one easy way to stay ’tilling the soil’, working the 9-5 to pay your bills, and never being satisfied that what you have is enough. In Consumerism, More is More. Cutting that association saves a lot of space, and a lot of money.

Where Do I Start?

There is something savagely satisfying, once you realise how little possessions really matter, in getting rid of them. Something of that small thrill of acquisition repeats itself when an item is wholeheartedly disposed of. I encourage you to start by picturing a simple, minimal existence, filled with only the items you use and need. If it helps, remember the guy (Ian Usher) who sold his life (a.k.a all his possessions) on Ebay and went to live on a Carribbean Island. He seems pretty happy these days. Now clear out anything that you don’t use really frequently, using the mantra- “Can I live without it?” Be ruthless, it’ll pay off.

You Can Be Sentimental When You’re Old

I know someone who keeps every letter she gets, every cinema ticket, every festival wristband, as if someday somebody will knock on her door and say, “What have you been doing all these years? Can you prove it?” Let me tell you something. The past is the past. The only time that it is permissible to be stuck in it is on your deathbed, in which case, pull out the old photo albums and have a good cry. Certainly, keep a few key items or photos, but cinema tickets? Really? You were there, you won’t forget being there, and your friends won’t forget you were there. Now chuck it out and make some new memories.

What’s The Benefit?

By cutting the emotional attachment to ‘things’ and relishing a minimal lifestyle you will see straight through advertising, save money, and keep your house de-cluttered. I remember reading ‘Heidi’ as a child, and am still awed by the idea of sleeping on a bale of hay under moonlight, and living off the milk of your pet goat. Perhaps that sounds strange, but it’s also conveniently frugal in comparison to the fantasy of ‘having it all’. Old clothes can be sold to companies that resell them in African or Eastern European markets, things can be sold online and those last few items can always go to the charity shop. Plenty of people can benefit from your clutter- just not you!

In researching this article, and planning my own purge, I read a lot of stories online of people selling everything they own and travelling the world. They speak as if their possessions were the only thing holding them back from achieving their dreams. If this is the case, just think what you can achieve when unburdened by a need for constant ‘things’. Perhaps you can invest the money into becoming what you really want to be.

*The only things worth possessing are good memories and an intention to make many more.*

An Argument With A Vegetarian

“So, have you always been vegetarian?” Is a question that I am often asked. The answer is no. No, my parents were not vegetarian, no I wasn’t spoon fed Quorn from age 1, with ‘Meat Is Murder’ spinning on the record player. In short, people are often confounded when I explain that my Vegetarianism is a choice. This is tied in with a strongly held belief that meat-eaters and Vegetarians are entirely different breeds, set in early childhood and only diverted from in the case of an occasional fad or that one bacon sandwich (we’ve all been there).

So I have a few questions to go through here. Why do meat eaters take offence to my decision to stop eating meat as an adult? Why is meat eating so ingrained in our national psyche? And why do people believe that they just couldn’t give up meat.

When you reject meat eating, you reject the accepted ‘Alpha’ or mainstream choice. In the least hipster way possible of being ‘not mainstream’, of course. So, why do humans conform? As Breckler, Olson, & Wiggins wrote- “Conformity is the most general concept and refers to any change in behaviour caused by another person or group; the individual acted in some way because of influence from others.” However, this only applies to the social behaviour of eating meat, and not the personal beliefs which some people hold regarding meat- ”Note that conformity is limited to changes in behaviour caused by other people; it does not refer to effects of other people on internal concepts like attitudes or beliefs.” (Breckler, Olson, & Wiggins, Social Psychology Alive, 2006). So for this to work, Meat Eating has to be the Alpha behaviour (which, if you’ve ever seen men order competitively large steaks at a restaurant, you might agree it is).

“Is it ’cause of moral reasons, or do you just not like meat?” Is the typical follow up question. For me, it is for ‘moral’ reasons, whatever that means, at least I know I stopped eating meat around the time my conscience started speaking up. This is when the conversation teeters dangerously on the precipice of becoming a sermon, at least in the ears of the questioner. People seem incapable of listening to one persons ‘moral’ choice without hearing it as judgement on their own actions. This is despite the fact that they have asked 2 minutes previously “What about eating meat do you disagree with?” Or some variant of that. *Sigh*.

So, my sensitivity to animal slaughter aside, are there any logical reasons to be a Veggie? Well, there’s health. The American Dietetic Association reported that – “appropriately planned vegetarian diets, including total vegetarian or vegan diets, are healthful, nutritionally adequate, and may provide health benefits in the prevention and treatment of certain diseases” (Journal of the American Dietetic Association, July 2009). Meat eaters love to talk about the missing protein and other nutrients in a Vegetarian diet, as if all Vegetarians are pale waifs existing on a lettuce leaf a day. While meat is indeed packed with protein, this can be easily substituted for things such as Lentils, which are protein rich, and contain more iron, magnesium, and potassium than the same quantity of beef.

Other reasons might be the environment- it takes 78 calories of fossil fuel to make one calorie of beef protein- compared to just 1 calorie for each calorie of soy beans. Or, more selfishly, your pocket- being a Vegetarian is a whole load cheaper. Whenever I eat out with friends, their steaks or whatever meat dish will typically cost a tenner or more- something a restaurant wouldn’t dare charge for the butter nut squash burger or whatever it may be, which usually comes in around £7.50. Win Win!

So that’s the argument anyway, and without me mentioning any of the reasons I am actually Vegetarian (that would be my ‘airy-fairy’, moral reasons). Hopefully this will do something to shift the perceptions of those obstinate people who counter my arguments with simply- “I just couldn’t give up meat. I love it too much!” Well, bacon sandwiches used to be my precursor to a great day, Roast Chicken used to be my Sunday special, and bangers and mash was a delicious dinner. And I can confirm that it is entirely possible, if you have the inclination, to give up something in spite of your taste buds. So next time someone asks me “Why on earth would you give up meat?!”-Rather than repeating my tried and tested arguments, I might just tell them to read this article.